Don’t do this

I’m done with creating a list of goals for the new year.
I’m letting go of the idea that I need to check certain boxes off by <this> age or in <this> amount of time in order to be happy.

I’m releasing the societal pressure of achieving the dreams and desires projected upon me.
Instead, I’m choosing to trust the process. I’m focusing on simply finding my joy every day.

I’m living in a state of surrender.

And while it sounds simple in theory, it’s a constant work in progress.
I had a good cry the other day.

I was speaking with my grandmother and she asked me when I was going to have a baby. I could feel the gravity of her expectations. I could hear the disappointment in her voice as she realized her opinions did not align with mine.​
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But this is my life, and I get to choose how to live it.It’s easy to get caught up in the idea of what you should be doing.

It’s easy to get caught up in the idea of what you should be doing.

You think your business should follow a certain path in order to be successful; your life should look a certain way in order for you to be happy.
And as a result, you end up setting goals based off of what others make you think you should be doing or wanting, instead of what you know in your heart is right.

Suddenly, you’re celebrating your 40th, 50th or even 60th birthday and looking back at what you’ve accomplished so far in your life, only to realize none of it really matters. You don’t actually feel fulfilled, or joyful. Because you spent all these years chasing someone else’s definition of success or happiness instead of creating your own.

I know how it goes, because I’ve been there.

When I first started my business, I was operating in the wounded masculine. I thought I had to be hustling all the time in order to be successful. This was who I was showing up as every day. As a result, this was the energy I was attracting back into my life and my business.

And everything about it felt so heavy and wrong.
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Your life is a barometer of what is going on in your head.
Your perception becomes your reality.

If you see something you don’t like, you can change it.

And you don’t have to wait for a new week, a new month or a new year to make a change. You get to choose to start today.

If you’re looking for 1:1 support to help you find more clarity, joy and peace in your business and life, let’s chat. 

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I can’t wait to see what the new year has in store for you.
Xo,
Vanessa
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