Think of someone whose inner circle you’d like to be a part of. Someone you follow or admire… someone you’d love to go for a cocktail with.
Now, what is it that makes you want to be their friend?
Is it their always-camera-ready hair? 💁
Their straight-off-the-runway style? 👠
Is it their Pinterest-worthy home décor? 🏠
Maybe it’s their dreamy business. The online platform they’ve created. Or their adorable dog named “Lulu.” 🐶
You may aspire to be just like them. But what really makes you want to follow them, hang out with them, and maybe even date them, likely comes down to one thing:
It’s the energy they bring that makes you feel inspired every time you’re around them. ✨
Suddenly, you feel like you can make bold moves in your business, or like you can walk away from the toxic relationship that’s no longer serving you. 🔥
It’s like you become your BEST SELF when you’re in their presence.
You notice a difference in your mood, the way you see the world, and the expectations you have of yourself.
Maybe you even see it in your bank account. 💰💰💰
It’s no secret you are highly influenced by the people you spend the most time with. 💯
You adopt their perspectives and beliefs, and their subconscious patterns, judgements and stories influence your own.
This is why, when it comes to choosing your inner circle, you need to channel your inner Oprah and Gayle.
After all, your inner circle gets intimate access to your life, and you should think carefully about who you let in.
⚠️ WARNING: Our friends can also reinforce our bad patterns. We vent to them about everything that’s wrong with the world, and in return, they reinforce these negative thought patterns. ⚠️
❌ You don’t need another friend who’s going to engage while you complain about the job you hate or how you’re living paycheck to paycheck 💵
✔️ You need someone who’s going to call you on your shit. (Even when you don’t want to hear it.)
✔️ You need someone who refuses to allow you to stay in your blind spots and limiting beliefs. Instead, they’re willing to point out when you’re not living as your best self, and offer guidance and support in your journey.
And then, you need to learn how to be that person for someone else.
How can you become the one they think of when they opened this email? The one whose inner circle they want to join?
You have to do the inner work.
How do you go about that?
Well, you can start by downloading this free workbook featuring The 5 Minute Trigger Strategy.
It’s available for a limited time only, so don’t wait to get your hands on a copy.
PS – I’m always looking to expand my inner circle. If you need someone to call you out on your BS, I’m your girl. Comment below to find out how I can help. xoxo